Episode 107: Ten Trends of Rising Rockstars

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The Problem with Outliers

Too many times we pay attention to obscure examples of success.

We obsess about the exceptions, the outliers, and the one-offs.

But patterning yourself after these people is a recipe for regret. If you want to tilt the odds in your favor pay attention to these 10 Trends instead.

The best part is anyone can do them. Ironically, that’s also the problem. Because they’re available to any of us at anytime, these 10 Trends are underrated. As a result, hardly anyone implements them—except these Rockstars. They found a way…and now you can too.

 

The Solution with Rockstars

1. Brian Wagner = Relentless Serving

2. Laura Harris = Pure Courage

3. Shanda Heilman = Unwavering Resourcefulness

4. Laura Diehl = Authentic Compassion

5. Chris McClure / Mark Williams = Imperfect Action

6. Renee Vidor = Savvy Integration

7. Pat Gano / Erica Foster = Generational Collaboration

8. Jim Akers = Systematic Storytelling

9. Stuart Lamont = Methodical Preparation

10. Merrilyn Hughes = Committed Victor

Each of these Rockstars are part of the Igniting Souls Tribe. This unhackable community is comprised of our clients. One recent member said this about the Tribe:

I just wanted to take a minute and share with everyone how unique I have found this tribe to be. I am a part of six groups…three are free and three I pay between $20 and $30 per month to participate. Some of the groups have more members than Igniting Souls, but they all fail miserably in the area of support and interaction.

 

Episode 106: How to find the perfect business partner

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It’s been said that you should be choosier about picking a business partner than even picking a spouse. While I don’t necessarily agree with that I do know that business partnerships often begin on a napkin at a restaurant and end with a judge in a courtroom.

 

Choosing the right business partner is incredibly important. It can sink your future or solidify your present. In today’s episode I share how to pick an UNHACKABLE business partner.

U = Unique
N = Noble
H = Happy
A = Adept
C = Collaborative
K = Keen
A = Achiever
B = Believable
L = Learner
E = Electric

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Episode 105: How to create a killer coaching business as your side hustle

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In 2011, while still in my day job, I saw the writing on the wall. Although I loved the people I worked with and the organization I worked for, I also knew I had untapped potential and unrealized dreams.

I began coaching a few clients on the side. After a few months of seeing clients become souls on fire, I knew I was hooked.

The extra income helped me realize I could scale this side business and eventually leave my day job. Sure enough, I implemented this plan. To this day I still coach on a weekly basis. It fills me up and it transforms my clients. In this episode I share 7 essential elements for creating a killer coaching business as a side hustle.

C = Clarity
O = Ownership
A = Action
C = Commitment
H = Hungry
E = Example
S = Support

I hope this episode encourages you. And…if you’re interested in learning more about the Igniting Souls Team, we are taking applications for a limited number of openings over the next few days.

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The secret to winning the Grammys or anything else in life

Although they literally fill stadiums today, in 2011 Twenty-One Pilots traveled to their first show outside their city. Guess how many people came to this unimpressive basement to hear them perform? Twelve people!

If you watch the clip from that show (see above), you’ll realize that Tyler Joseph and Josh Dun didn’t hold back. In fact, when playing in front of 12,000 people they embodied the same enthusiasm. And at the Grammy’s—the television season’s most-watched entertainment telecast—in front of more than 20 million viewers on February 12th, 2017 they embodied the same enthusiasm. (By the way, they WON!)

A picture of their first show outside their city with a whopping 12 people in attendance.
Today Twenty One Pilots packs out the largest venues available.

The Secret is Enthusiasm

Enthusiasm isn’t a result of being on a bigger stage. Enthusiasm is what gets you on a bigger stage. Enthusiasm is the cause and not the effect. It’s the root, not the result. If you can’t get excited in front of 12 people then 12 thousand or 12 million aren’t going to do it for you either.

Enthusiasm literally means “God within” or “possessed by God.” It’s a rare quality today because it takes perseverance, stamina, and discipline.

Too many artists, authors, leaders, and entrepreneurs get “hacked” when their outward circumstances don’t match their internal vision. They throw in the towel or give up. They settle for being unenthusiastic. Success doesn’t mean not ever failing. Success means not ever quitting, even when you only have 12 people at your gig.

 

I used the word hacked for a reason. Just like phones and computers get hacked, people get hacked too.
Here’s what I mean.

Ever have an amazing idea?
If you’re like most people then you started out excited, ready to implement that idea.
But then something happened. Chances are you and your dream got sidelined somewhere along the way.

Maybe you just got distracted or lost focus?
If you’ve experienced this, then you’re not alone.

And unless you find a solution then you’re destined to repeat the same pattern.
You’ll stay stuck and frustrated. You’ll lose enthusiasm and get hacked. 

Are you getting hacked? Take the FREE Unhackability Assessment below.

You don’t need a big following to become an author

“I’m going to build my platform before I become an author.”
“Just like all those other big-time authors, I need a bigger following first.”
“I don’t have enough fans to publish now.”

These statements might sound wise or even prudent, right?
And you might have said them or heard other people say them.
But these aren’t justifications for delaying your dream of becoming an author.

It’s time to label them for what they truly are.

EXCUSES!

Stop comparing. Start creating. 
We need you and your message.

 

As an author of 7 books—spanning the past 13 years—and as a coach to over 300 authors I’ve gotten pretty good at smelling fear. The truth is I used to believe these same lies. When I first started, before I saw my writing dreams come true, I was scared and stuck. I didn’t know whom to trust or what to believe.

An author named Max took a couple hours and invested in me way back in 1998. He helped me believe that I could one day become an author.

Seems like many aspiring authors can relate to feeling stuck. They cling to the soundbites above so they can rationalize their tendency to procrastinate. Besides, they’ve heard that unless you have a big platform they don’t have a chance in the marketplace. Focusing on getting a bigger platform gives them the illusion that they’re being productive.

The truth is it’s a delightful distraction that keeps you from making your dream come true. 

In this post we’ll separate fact from fiction. We’ll unpack the real issues one at a time. Then you can decide for yourself if you need a bigger following before you write your book.

What is a platform?

While platform is a buzzword that strikes fear into would-be authors, the truth is many people toss around the word without having an accurate definition.

Platform is the ability for you and your message to be seen and heard. 

In the old days, people would stand on “soapboxes” and communicate their message. These raised platforms were often wooden crates originally used for shipment of soap or other dry goods from a manufacturer to a retail store. “Soapboxes” functioned as inexpensive and portable temporary platforms for street corner speakers attempting to be seen and heard at improvised outdoor meetings. Today our platforms are more sophisticated.

How big should your platform be?

I get this questions all the time.

Hey Kary, I don’t have a big platform. I don’t have a big following. Should I still write a book or should I focus on building my platform first?

Pope Francis TwitterThe answer is start NOW…wherever you are!

You’ll be building your platform for the rest of your life. It’s true for everybody. Look at the biggest celebrities. Did you know the Pope has a twitter account? And Oprah Winfrey and her team are trying to increase her reach every single day. She is focused on getting more listeners, viewers, and touching more people around the world. Why? Because there are more people around the world who do not know about her.

The Pope and Oprah are still focused on building their platforms. Therefore, you and I will be building ours for quite a while too.

If you wait until your platform is “big enough” or until you have “enough followers” before you publish then you will be waiting for the rest of your life. It’s just another excuse.

How do I know this?

Because way back when in 2004, when I published my first book, I didn’t have a platform. But I wrote it anyway. And then guess what happened?

I gained readers. Then I wrote another book and got more readers and more media gigs. And then a few years later, I published again and then again. The point is I got started.

You have a dream inside you for a reason. Don’t let your story die inside you. If you do you’ll regret it. I meet people all the time who are full of regrets.

3 Ways to get a Bigger Platform

Don’t think I’m against platforms. They certainly help you spread your message by getting you seen and heard. But from the beginning, my strategy has always been both/and NOT either/or.

The most successful authors do BOTH. They write their books AND increase their platforms.

Also, don’t think getting a bigger platform is a one size fits all. There are 3 ways to get a bigger platform. Intuitive authors know this and use it to their advantage.

1. You can BUY a Platform

Investing money to increase your platform is usually classified as Interruption Marketing. According to Seth Godin, interruption marketing is communicating messages that interrupt customers while they are doing something of their preference.

Examples include advertisements on television, radio, or social media. Most businesses prefer interruption marketing because it’s faster, easier, and cheaper. Here are a few examples:

Purchasing email lists
Spamming (illegal)
Running ads
Placing flyers on windshields
Delivering free community papers to your door

Unfortunately, this type of marketing doesn’t work in the long run. For starters, think of the internet as one big, noisy room. Over time people naturally tune out these interruptions. Secondly, it requires more and more money to get people’s attention. Consider this year’s Super Bowl. According to Forbes, the cost of a 30-second spot is a whopping $5 million dollars, the equivalent of $166,667 per second.

2. You can BUILD a Platform

Building a platform is effective, it just takes a very long time. I should know. My first book released in 2004 and I’ve been building my platform ever since. Examples of building a platform are:

Writing a blog
Launching a podcast
Shooting a video

When you build your platform you’re usually engaging in permission marketing versus interruption marketing. Notice the difference, also explained by Seth Godin:

Permission marketing is the privilege (not the right) of delivering anticipated, personal and relevant messages to people who actually want to get them. Real permission is different from presumed or legalistic permission. Just because you somehow get my email address doesn’t mean you have permission. Because I don’t complain doesn’t mean you have permission. Just because it’s in the fine print of your privacy policy doesn’t mean it’s permission either. Real permission works like this: if you stop showing up, people complain, they ask where you went.

3. You can BORROW a Platform

There is a much faster and effective way to getting a bigger platform. It’s not a result of buying or building. I increased my platform exponentially by BORROWING other people’s platforms.

Borrowing someone else’s platform means that they invite you on their stage. They extend their trust to you and promote you and your message. Over the years I’ve:

Stood on other people’s stages
Spoken on other people’s podcasts
Talked on other people’s TV stations
Written on other people’s blogs
Shared on other people’s radio stations

If I waited to get a big enough platform before I wrote any of my 7 books I would have been waiting forever. Thankfully I didn’t.

Kary Oberbrunner Author Books

I wouldn’t have been able to buy or build a platform fast enough. Instead, I wrote my books AND borrowed other people’s platforms. Don’t get me wrong. Buying and building aren’t bad. However, they have limitations.

Buying a platform often costs a bunch of money.
Building a platform often takes a bunch of time.
Borrowing a platform doesn’t require time or money.

Over the past 13 years I’ve discovered how to have other people invite you onto their platform. Here are just a few examples.

Michael Hyatt Kary Oberbrunner Nick Vujicic

Brian Tracy Kary Oberbrunner

John Maxwell Kary Oberbrunner

Kary Oberbrunner 700 Club

 

Kary Oberbrunner, Les Brown, Mark Sanborn

I Want to Help you Like I Helped Them

I love to help aspiring authors. Over the years I’ve helped hundreds write, publish, and market their books. They all began just like me…scared and stuck. They didn’t know whom to trust or what to believe.

They clung to the soundbites floating around so they could rationalize their tendency to procrastinate. They heard that unless they had a big platform they didn’t have a chance in the marketplace. Today these people are authors. Here’s a picture of just a small amount of authors I’ve helped. They’re each holding their book. Many have gone on to do amazing things. They’ve spoken all over the world and helped many people. They’ve also increased their influence, impact, and income. (I’m the bald guy with a girl’s name in the middle.)

Author Academy Elite

 

One aspiring author named Dalia asked me to help her get in front of a particular celebrity with 2 million followers. I shared my process with her and within days she was featured on this actress’ instagram account.

 

 

Megan Good Author Academy Elite

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I’ll never forget how Max invested a couple hours in me. To this day I still have his letter way back from 1998. He changed my life by believing in me. His encouragement convinced me that one day I could become a full-time writer. (See a picture of that letter below.)

As a result, I want to pass on what Max did for me and help you overcome your obstacles and help you achieve your dreams. I have a FREE training that has helped over 50,000 authors. There is nothing to buy in this FREE training. I give you nearly ninety minutes of solid content.

Since I believe in practicing 100% integrity, I’ll tell you up front that at the end of that training if you want more from me, there is a simple form where you can request more information. My FREE training even comes with a helpful interactive guidebook to help you on your author journey. I know you’ll enjoy it.

Most importantly…just get started. Stop delaying your dream and remember…I believe in you. 

Please comment below and let me know a little bit about yourself. What do you want to write about?

Max Anders, Kary Oberbrunner

 

Episode 104: How to use video to grow your book, brand, or business. An interview with Vlog Boss Amy Schmittauer

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Are you leveraging the hottest tool on social media?

If you’re not using video for your book, brand, or business you are missing out on increasing your influence, impact, and income.

The truth is though, most of us are scared or at least a little intimidated to enter the brave new world of video or vlogging.

There is a solution. I invited special guest, the queen of vlogging, Amy Schmittauer, to join us.

 

Her #1 Bestselling book—Vlog Like a Boss—is sweeping the globe. She has now captured the word VLOG on all of Amazon.

Amy is here to show you how to kill it online with video blogging. With a collection of strategies and tactics from years of experience in online video, Schmittauer shares time-tested, proven methods to creating brand awareness with vlogging that will build a loyal community for years to come.

Listen in and learn. Your future clients will thank you.

And to learn how I can help publish you through Author Academy Elite like I helped Amy, watch our FREE author training for a limited time.

6 ways your BRAIN might be getting hacked

Are distractions holding you back? Take the FREE assessment and discover the truth about yourself. If you’re ready to become unhackable, check out the FREE training.   

Ever have an amazing idea?

If you’re like most people then you started out excited, ready to implement that idea. But then something happened. Chances are you and your dream got sidelined or sabotaged somewhere along the way.

Maybe you attributed your lack of implementation to distractions or loss of focus? The brutal truth is:

YOU got hacked.

 

Humans getting hacked? Sounds mighty similar to a sci-fi movie—except that it’s not. Hacking is when something gets unauthorized access to a system or computer.

Good thing humans aren’t systems or computers—except that we are.

Think back to your younger years and you’ll remember our bodies are made up of systems…(circulatory system, reproductive system, etc.). And many scientists refer to our brains as sophisticated types of computers.

Science fiction is converging with science fact and the majority of us are ill-equipped to successfully navigate this over-stimulated new world.

HOW WE’RE GETTING HACKED

Although distractions come in many forms, here are 6 ways our brains are getting hacked:

(1) SMART PHONES ARE HACKING US

According to a study conducted by the research firm Dscout, on average people touch their phones 2,617 times a day. (Heavy users do 5,427 touches.)

The average person spends a total of five hours a day browsing the web and using apps. This equates to around a third of the time a person is awake, and is twice as often as many people realize.

Researchers also found smartphone use was typically confined to short bursts, with more than half of uses lasting less than 30 seconds. This means that people experience “distracted work” far more regularly than what Georgetown University Professor Cal Newport calls “deep work.”

(2) MULTI-TASKING IS HACKING US

Multi-tasking is a myth. The brain can only do 1 cognitive activity at a time. This phenomenon, more properly understood as switch-tasking, decreases productivity by up to 40%.

According to Forbes: “Researchers at the Institute of Psychiatry at the University of London studied 1,100 workers at a British company and found that multitasking with electronic media caused a greater decrease in IQ than smoking pot.”

In a 2009 paper titled “Why Is It So Hard to Do My Work?” from Sophie Leroy, a business-school professor at the University of Minnesota reveals that multi-tasking literally produces “attention residue” or the inability to transition tasks effectively. This in turn saps mental energy, ruins concentration, and reduces overall productivity.

(3) VIDEO GAMES ARE HACKING US

According to The Entertainment Software Association annual report Americans spent $23.5 billion on video games in 2015.

(4) STREAMING VIDEOS ARE HACKING US

According to Reel In Reel11 billion hours is spent watching videos on Netflix every month.

(5) ADVERTISEMENTS ARE HACKING US

According to an article in the NY Timesthe average person sees 5,000 ads a day.

(6) DECISION FATIGUE IS HACKING US

Researchers at Cornell University discovered that the average person makes 226.7 food decisions a day. (Perhaps this is why influencers like Mark Zuckerberg and Barak Obama choose NOT to be hacked and pre-decide what to wear.)

OUR DREAMS ARE GETTING HACKED

Who’s the next hack victim?

Aspiring authors are getting hacked. According to USA Today, 82% of the population dreams of writing a book. In reality, less than 1% ever do.

Ph.D.students are getting hacked. ABD stands for “all but dissertation,” a description of a student who has finished coursework and passed comprehensive exams, but has yet to complete and defend the doctoral thesis. Today, the Ph.D. Completion Project estimates that the ten-year completion rate is barely over 50%.

You’re getting hacked. Rich or poor, ignorant or educated, if you’re breathing then you’re in danger of being hacked. We all have ideas, goals, and dreams, but unfortunately most of us never implement them. And unless you find a solution then you’re destined to repeat the same pattern. You’ll stay stuck and frustrated unless you discover how to become unhackable.

HOW TO BECOME UNHACKABLE

In a society of increasing distractions, Unhackability© is the new secret weapon of super achievers in every field. Unhackability centers on 3 components: Idea | Focus| Flow

IDEA: Flawless Idea Anatomy

FOCUS: Deliberate Magnetic Focus

FLOW: Optimal Human Performance

Unhackability is quickly becoming the defining characteristic of the highest performing leaders and teams—those able to cut through the noise of life and close the gap between ideation and implementation. All others get hacked, experience frustration and stagnation, and suffer from irrelevance.

In a world where everyone is connected, anyone can be hacked. The only remaining question is will you?

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Episode 103: 6 tips to help you sell your first online product or program

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Are you ready to sell your first online product or program?

Using our latest Elixir Project Experience launch, I share the backstory behind all of our Transformation Invitations (sales pages). Integrating these 6 tips will make yours a much smoother experience:

1. Pain
2. Proof
3. Picture
4. Process
5. People
6. Purchase

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Episode 102: HOW TO SPREAD YOUR DREAM – 3 factors that help ideas catch fire

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Martin Luther King Jr. had a dream…and decades later we still remember it. WHY IS THIS?

His dream, like several others throughout history, spread. BUT HOW?

3 factors help ideas catch fire. For dreams to spread they must be:

1. Clear

2. Compelling

3. Contagious

In this episode I unpack each factor and give you a map to give your dream the best chance it has to be remembered for decades to come too.

For a limited time, help me spread my dream of making the world unhackable in work and life.

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