Deep in your core, you know it:

Your present context is not your ultimate destiny.

The extent of your current awareness doesn’t come close to the potential that lurks beneath the surface.

You something to give the world—though it’s momentarily untapped and untouched.

In case you’ve forgotten, may I be the first to remind you? You’re more than what you’ve become.

Quit denying. Stop deflecting. Cease resisting.

When you prepare for the moment, the moment is prepared for you. This is your chance. Will you grab hold and take it?

 

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QUESTION: What do you dream doing someday?

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ARE YOU BUSY LIVING OR BUSY DYING? 

It’s one or the other. And there is no in between. But what does it look like to get unstuck? These 10 tips put me on a path to overcome the Resistance.

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QUESTION: What does it look like for you to get “busy living” ?

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Dream or Die…Your Choice

It’s been said, “Most people are dead, they just haven’t made it official.” (Tweet This)

I agree. So did Andy Dufresne. He told his friend “Red” in The Shawshank Redemption:

“I guess it comes down to a simple choice, really. Get busy living or get busy dying.”  

Stuck in prison for a crime he didn’t commit, Andy had the choice of dreaming or dying. Thankfully, he kept dreaming. As a result, he kept living.

Those around him weren’t so fortunate. After serving 50 years in Shawshank, one convict named “Brooks” reentered society, quite unsuccessfully. Although free on the outside, he still suffered from a mental prison on the inside.

Unable to perform the simplest jobs like bagging groceries at a local supermarket, Brooks tells himself it’s easier to end his life than try to create a new one. “Red” shared perspective about Brooks mental condition:

 …These walls are funny. First you hate ’em, then you get used to ’em. After long enough, you get so you depend on ’em. That’s “institutionalized.” …They send you here for life, and that’s just what they take. Part that counts, anyway.

Although as a child you started out as a dreamer, you’ve been beat down along the way:

• You’ve been told to play safe and play small.
• You’ve been told to grow up and be mature.
• You’ve been told to give up and be realistic.

These sound bytes are death to your soul and to your dream.

 

Guard your Heart…and your Dream

My favorite book says: “Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.” This means it’s your responsibility to grow, nourish, and protect your heart and your dream.

• Expect failure.
• Expect criticism.
• Expect pain.

Along the way you’ll be tempted to kill your dream. If  you do you won’t have to feel anything. But remember, dreaming is what makes you human. When you kill it, you also kill your humanity. The opposite is true too. When you achieve it, you feel alive. Just ask Diana Nyad…the 64 year-old who reached her dream.

Dreaming is about Recovery not Discovery

Most people think Diana Nyad’s dream began when she was 28 years old, the first time she attempted to swim from Cuba to Florida. A closer look reveals a different story.

Nyad remembers dreaming about swimming across the Florida Straits during her first visit to Cuba before the Communist takeover when she was 8 years old. Dreams grow and fade over time depending upon your focus. Often they hide in your subconscious, only to come raging back into your awareness.  Dreaming is more about recovery than discovery.

Nyad knew this better than most. She said:

“You have a dream….that doesn’t come to fruition, but you move on with life. But it’s somewhere back there. Then you turn 60, and your mom just dies, and you’re looking for something. And the dream comes waking out of your imagination.”

It’s time for your dream to wake out of your imagination. It’s time because it’s a matter of life and death. Your own.

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QUESTION: What’s your dream? I want to hear it. Big or small. Foolish or Brilliant. 

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They’re called DREAM KILLERS.

They never hunt down average or ordinary. They set their sights on taking down exceptional and extraordinary. But unless you know who these killers are they’ll bury you and your dream.

You’ve rattled their cage. Isn’t it time you ripped off their mask?

 

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QUESTION: What are some Dream Killers you’ve encountered? 

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Margins Create Space for…

1. Laughter: You can’t laugh if everything is serious.
2. Generosity: You can’t give if you have nothing left.
3. Memories: You can’t remember if you weren’t present.
4. Prayer: You can’t pray if you’re self-sufficient.
5. Dreams: You can’t dream if you can’t imagine.
6. Love: You can’t love if you’re self-absorbed.
7. Exercise: You can’t exercise if you don’t value yourself.
8. Creativity: You can’t create if you’re merely a machine.
9. Experimentation: You can’t experiment if you don’t have time to fail.
10. Reflection: You can’t reflect if you don’t value rest.
11. Spontaneity: You can’t be in the moment if you’re stuck in the future.
12. Rest: You can’t sit if you can’t stop.
13. Joy: You can’t pour out if you haven’t been filled up.
14. Peace: You can’t breathe deeply if you can’t catch your breath. (Tweet This)
15. Friendships: You can’t expect to have friends if you fail to be one.

You can’t survive without food, water, or sleep. (College students might disagree with the sleep part.) Yet many people believe you can survive and even thrive without margins. Your Designer seemed to think otherwise by gifting you one full day of rest and recreation every seven.

The price of a life without margin

Have you ever tried reading something without margins? I have. Not fun. I remember back in graduate school, before the days of e-books. For one of my classes I occasionally photocopied a few pages from a massive 20 pound reference book. I’d shrink the text to fit the oversized page onto an 8½ by 11 inch piece of paper.

When my photocopies came out, I struggled trying to read the small font that ran off the edges of the page. In no time at all, my eyes would jump lines and I’d end up losing my place. Frustration would set in and the entire process proved unenjoyable at best.

This describes the majority of us perfectly.  We keep trying to squeeze more into our schedules. Without any edges, we struggle and lose our place in life. Frustration sets in and our lives are unenjoyable at best, hardly a picture of fulfillment.

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QUESTION: What other things do people miss when they don’t have margins in their lives? 

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